A man have sex because he wants sex.
You see the difference?
Sex is a physical thing to a man.
But for a woman, sex is both physical and emotional.
A woman can have sex because of love. But a man can have sex because of sex.
Before a woman can have sex with you, she must have feelings for you. She must have that emotionally attachment to you.
That EROS dimension of love will be there.
Hardly will you find a woman having sex with a man she does not love. Except if shes a prostitute.
But for a man, reverse can be the case. A man may have no iota of love for you, and still have sex with you.
This is why a man can hire a prostitute just to have sex. He doesnt need to love the prostitute before he fulfills his sxu*l desire.
Now, understand this:
As a woman, a man can use you to feed his sxu*l desires. He can even give you money. He can take you out. All because he wants sx, not you!
If you want to know if a man truly loves you, dont give him sex. Sit back and watch.
If he leaves you because you dont give him sex, then he doesnt love you. He only loves sx!
Dear young adult girl!
As youre growing up and getting closer to the journey of marriage life..pls try to understand that you can choose a husband for yourself but your kids cant choose their own father,while choosing a father for them pls choose a father,a friend,a tutor,a prophet,and a guidance for them...
And dont forget to be good mother you can raise a hero and not a zero
Wedding ring is the smallest handcuff ever made, so think deep, choose your prison mate carefully and sentence yourself wisely, to avoid prison break.
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